Lose one's bearings

Not know whether someone is coming or going


Perdere la bussola

Essere scombussolati


Meanings
Lit.: to become lost. Fig: to become hopelessly confused, disoriented

Examples
I'm so confused, I've lost my bearings and I can't find my train of thoughts
Sono così confuso, ho perso la bussola e non riesco nemmeno a seguire i miei pensieri

When I heard the bad news I lost my bearings and I didn't know whether I was coming or going anymore
Quando ho sentito la brutta notizia, ho perso completamente la bussola tanto da non sapere più quello che facevo

Since he fell head over heels in love with Martha, John doesn't know whether he's coming or going
Da quando si è innamorato follemente di Marta, Giovanni ha perso la bussola e non capisce più niente

Origin
Here, the term "bearings" is used in its literal meaning of reference points or directions in relation to one's position