Call the tune

Call the shots / Lay down the law


Menare le danze

Condurre le danze / Dirigere il gioco


Meanings
Fig.: to be in charge and make the decisions

Examples
After a shaky beginning, the champ took the bit in his mouth and now he's the one calling the tune
Dopo un inizio traballante, il campionissimo ha preso in mano le redini del gioco ed รจ lui adesso a menare le danze

It's not up to you to call the tune. We have a very competent boss and it's up to him to call the shots
Non sta a te dirigere il gioco. Abbiamo un capo molto competente e spetta a lui prendere le decisioni e dare gli ordini

Origin
The full term is "Who pays the piper calls the tune", meaning whoever bears the cost of an enterprise should have authority over it (Christine Ammer: The American heritage dictionary of idioms)